Okay I'm sorry how this is going to sound but does the words 'hanging out as friends' mean anything?
Lol, you don't have to be gay/bi to hang with supposed other gay/bi's. Cripes. People can hang out with who they want without it affecting their orientation or their relationships with others. Why do people assume gays/straights must stick within their own 'groups' to be seen as less suspect?
I'm sorry but it's a big wide world out there and people of all orientations are going to mingle without them having to justify it as a 'coming out' parade. If there is something in this well that's up to them, but it probably is most likely a bunch of guys hanging out together, some of which may have more in common than others in the group. It still doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them hanging out.
I totally agree -- Friend of mine is a a gay male and his very best friend since he was like 5 is a straight male. Everyone assumes the straight guy is gay just b/c they hang out all the time.
However, the thing that bothers me about this 3-some is that it sorta popped out of no where. Do guys really get that close that quick (wihtout something sexual going on)?