nosunlight

Please don’t tell me to take a deep breath and then post a pro-mel story. People picked their pony and it is Mel. TMZ picked Mel too. Other places are anti Mel. I actually come back to this page because I’m curious how people respond to everything. Think of it as rubbernecking an accident. I do think I struck a nerve with some people and I find it interesting. If you don’t like what I have to say, ignore me. And after this post, I will stay quiet. I’ve said my piece and that’s all I can do. Have a lovely day.

I’m not a troll. I’ve been a member for years Joined: August 06 I like reading gossip but I never had the urge to comment on it because it is gossip. This isn’t gossip, this is about abuse. Yes, I have an agenda. People should believe others when they say they have been abused. I am attacking the idea that people think that if someone is unlikeable then that’s a reason to question them. Many abusers pick people who are less likely to be believed. Yes, this is personal. I’ve been in the room when a six year old was told her mother wasn’t coming to the hospital to get her because daddy killed her. This poor child couldn’t wipe her own tears away because daddy dearest had broken both her arms. Guess why one of the reasons mommy stayed with daddy? When she tried to get help (sadly, not from the police) people told her it was her fault or they didn’t believe her. This isn’t the only horror story I’ve had to deal with. I am angry that people don’t understand that second guessing her motives takes away from the fact that he did abuse her, admits to it and told her she deserved it. I do find it ironic that Ozzy’s kids are wearing the shirts when Sharon has said that when Ozzy was at his worst that he was violent against her. From wikipedia: The couple used to physically fight regularly and according to Sharon Osbourne they would "beat the shit out of each other".[5] She has described herself as "a beaten woman" when she was at the hands of husband Ozzy where he once knocked out her front teeth.[58] She once retaliated by throwing a full bottle of scotch at his head.[58] The most notorious incident arose in August 1989 when Ozzy was arrested for attempted murder after he had returned from a peace festival in Moscow and tried to strangle Sharon in a haze of alcohol and drugs.[5] After the incident, he spent three months in rehabilitation as a result of his actions, after which time, Sharon Osbourne said she regained her strength in their relationship and did not press charges.[67] [edit]

I’m not pro Oksana. I’m anti abuser. I’m anti hate. The “whole truth” goes out the window once one person attacks another person. He admits to hitting her. I don’t know the whole story. I will never know the whole story. But, I know what hateful people do and I see the results. I see the shattered lives. With every word that has come out of Mel’s mouth (past words included) I don’t understand how anyone could be .000000000001% pro Mel.

Stop worrying about her and worry about yourselves. I hope no one you love ever gets trapped in a scary relationship. I don’t care what her motivations are. He: Admits to hitting her. Probably hurt his child because she was in the way. Did this in front of her son. Threatens to kill her. Calls her names. Calls her 12 year old names. Calls almost every race names (has he insulted Asians yet?). He wishes her to be raped. States no one will believe her! Says she has no friends. (Two classic abuser statements.) This is why people stay and get abused. Believes life would be fine if she asks for forgiveness, smiles and blows him. They are saying that his team has hired people to write things on websites to support him. After reading things here and other places I believe that. Shame on those people who took money to badmouth a person like that. I would rather be homeless then to defend someone like him. I’m tired of reading negatives about her. Really? Please tell me what she did to deserve anything? Let me tell you what she did. She said NO to him. Don’t write, “What he did was wrong, but...” There is no but! He was wrong. The end. Some of you think I’m nuts for harping on this, but I’ve had deal with the people who are abused and battered. I’ve had to look at women and children of all ages and see that they may be walking and talking but their spirit and hope are gone. They don’t get that back. It was killed. And, guess what they were told over and over again. NO ONE WILL BELIEVE YOU! Most of these people weren’t against people with Mel’s power and influence.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/celebs/news/2010/0...15875-22421219/ Timothy Dalton got a restraining order against Mel to stay away from his kid!

My comment was directed at many posters, not just one person. Making it public evens the playing field. Mel has power. Maybe not what he had before, but he has it. We wouldn’t have known about Sugartits, except it was leaked. The police were hiding this from the public. We don’t know what else they hid. It also keeps her safe. Think of it as a nightlight. She may have been coached, but who cares. You don’t think he got coached when he went on his forgive me tour. People could push my buttons and I could say some awful things, but nothing close to what he said. He is vile. If the gossip about visitation is true, I wonder how he was able to get unsupervised overnights with his child during the case. Usually, the judge allows supervised overnights. I bet Mel’s lawyer said it would be bad for Mel’s image. Shows people that having a name gives you rights others don’t have.

NO ONE DESERVES TO BE HIT OR CALLED NAMES LIKE THAT!!!!!!! Please stop with the gold digger and bitch comments. It doesn’t matter if she was having sex with his son in front of him, NO ONE deserves it. Women are killed by men like him. Women stay with men like that because people make these comments. You are harming women. All women. This isn’t a joke and this isn’t funny. I would’ve left after the first time, but some people don’t. He is powerful and I would recorded him. I would have nanny-camed him. I would give it to friends to release if I was scared. Mel is still very powerful. I knew a member of a family where they hid the abuse and were afraid to leave. He then attacked the mother, made her watch him kill their kids and then he killed himself. When she was in the hospital she told them what happened and then she killed herself. In another family, I knew a girl whose step father was abusing her mother. When she was big enough, she tried to stop it. She pulled a knife on the step and actually cut him. The mother was so afraid she backed the step father and let her teenage daughter spend time in jail. The police finally believed the daughter and she was placed someplace else. PLEASE, I beg you. No matter what she is like, you don’t treat people like this. Other women will be hurt and killed because they see what people think. Men use these the same words against them and women think no one will believe it. Gossip is fun. This isn’t fun.