Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted April 29, 2022 Well, if someone is very private but is scheduled to be at an event, yeah. But as noted (in Lainey and other places) you don't have to do it on stage - THAT is very much a choice. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
James Otto Sweet Heart 28 Report post Posted April 29, 2022 ^^^ Forgive me if this is a dumb question, but are divorce papers ever sent in the mail or is being given them personally the only way that they are distributed? God bless you always!!! Holly Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maxiemom 623 Report post Posted April 29, 2022 These weren't divorce papers. Jason and Olivia never married. I'm just spitballing here, but I do wonder whether Olivia has been evading this for a while which forced the issue of serving her at a place of work. I also wonder whether she would have been ushered offstage and straight to a limo or something else that would have made it difficult to be a bit more discreet in the moment. I have no dog in this hunt whatsoever, but the bottom line is that the process server has a deadline driven job to do. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
princess 1,712 Report post Posted April 29, 2022 6 hours ago, James Otto Sweet Heart said: ^^^ Forgive me if this is a dumb question, but are divorce papers ever sent in the mail or is being given them personally the only way that they are distributed? God bless you always!!! Holly Legal papers (divorce or otherwise) often need to be formally served to the other party by a 3rd party. You can send via US Mail (3rd party requirement filled) and have the person sign for it (Certified Mail), but if they are dodging the paperwork they simply refuse to sign for it. That's when you get someone to serve the papers in person by handing directly to them (use a professional service, not just your friend). I had an ex boyfriend stalker that I needed to have served restraining order. I tried via US mail, but he kept refusing the mail so I got a server. Then he wouldn't answer the door of his home to get the papers, and then I found out he was using his employer to run my credit & check up on me. When I called the employer they didn't believe me. So I told the server to do it at his work, and make sure a ton of people saw it. That finally worked. And I mailed his employer a copy of the final restraining order after and said if they run my credit again they would be hearing from my lawyer. Fuckers, still pisses me off and it's been 25 years. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted April 29, 2022 5 hours ago, Maxiemom said: These weren't divorce papers. Jason and Olivia never married. I'm just spitballing here, but I do wonder whether Olivia has been evading this for a while which forced the issue of serving her at a place of work. It's just so weird to me bc they really seemed pretty amicable in the split. She & the kids were in England when he was filming Ted Lasso (both S1 & S2 I think) and he thanked her and the kids in his Emmy (?) acceptance speech. Appearances can be deceiving and no one outside knows what really happens in a relationship. Speaking of, Princess, I'm so sorry that happened to you and I would have tried to do the same thing! Look up my credit fraudulently and bad mouth me? Oh honey, there will be consequences..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
James Otto Sweet Heart 28 Report post Posted April 29, 2022 4 hours ago, princess said: Legal papers (divorce or otherwise) often need to be formally served to the other party by a 3rd party. You can send via US Mail (3rd party requirement filled) and have the person sign for it (Certified Mail), but if they are dodging the paperwork they simply refuse to sign for it. That's when you get someone to serve the papers in person by handing directly to them (use a professional service, not just your friend). I had an ex boyfriend stalker that I needed to have served restraining order. I tried via US mail, but he kept refusing the mail so I got a server. Then he wouldn't answer the door of his home to get the papers, and then I found out he was using his employer to run my credit & check up on me. When I called the employer they didn't believe me. So I told the server to do it at his work, and make sure a ton of people saw it. That finally worked. And I mailed his employer a copy of the final restraining order after and said if they run my credit again they would be hearing from my lawyer. Fuckers, still pisses me off and it's been 25 years. Thank you. I pray that things are way better for you now compared to all of them years ago. God bless you always!!! Holly Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
princess 1,712 Report post Posted April 29, 2022 I think things are at least a little better than they were back then. Not so hush-hush about stalking. I remember people saying how embarrassing it must be for me, and my response was always the same "What do I have to be embarrassed about? It's his shame." Maybe that's why I like Michelle Pfeiffer/Betty Ford so much about seeing a shrink in the Showtime First Lady show, having problems does not make you less of a person It was awful, he threw a brick through my brand new car, was faxing lewd stuff to my office, lying to everyone about what was happening like I was the crazy one, the works. I did luck out, after my neighbor figured out what was going on she came to my door and told me a secret - she was a cop in the stalking department of Coronado Island. She walked me thru exactly what to do, how to document everything, safety stuff, etc. She was awesome, helped me throughout the process. I've shared her advice with others over the years, she was such a big help. But I get why she didn't tell most people she was a cop where she lived. And she never said a word about the fact that I would go onto my back patio and smoke a joint a few times a month 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dixiedoodah 1,003 Report post Posted April 30, 2022 Dan Aykroyd and Donna Dixon Separate After 39 Years, Remain Legally Married: 'Loving Friendship' By Glenn Garner April 29, 2022 08:32 PM Dan Aykroyd and Donna Dixon are going their separate ways. The Emmy Award winner, 69, and his wife of nearly 40 years announced their separation Friday exclusively to PEOPLE, although they continue to be legally married and share a "loving friendship." "After 39 years as a couple we are now on separate life paths. We remain legally married, co-parents, co-workers and business partners," the pair tells PEOPLE in a joint statement. "This is our choice in loving friendship." Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
princess 1,712 Report post Posted July 29, 2022 ENTERTAINMENT LAWYER 07/28 **13** The split announcement between the three named rapper/singer and the actress is imminent. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dixiedoodah 1,003 Report post Posted July 30, 2022 I guess this is Megan Fox? Can’t think of anyone else at the moment but I feel like maybe I’m missing something obvious? Honestly, the ones who go hardest on proving how in love they are are always the least surprising breakups. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
princess 1,712 Report post Posted August 1, 2022 On 7/30/2022 at 8:41 AM, dixiedoodah said: Honestly, the ones who go hardest on proving how in love they are are always the least surprising breakups. Totally agree. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted August 2, 2022 Oh man I missed Dan Akroyd & Donna Dixon split 😞 Staying legally married like Shriver/Schwarzenegger - wonder if it's all financial? For Shriver, could be Catholicism (she is REALLY traditional in a lot of ways so I could see that).... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dixiedoodah 1,003 Report post Posted October 4, 2022 Watching Access Hollywood and they are going heavy on the speculation about Tom Brady and Gisele getting divorced. They are being careful about hedging but discussing lawyers and accountants. There has been a LOT of smoke about them since the unretirement. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted October 5, 2022 Yeah, Page Six broke yesterday they've both hired divorce laywers. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dixiedoodah 1,003 Report post Posted October 28, 2022 So I guess they got the sneaky quiet divorce and it’s already finalized? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nickfan 25 Report post Posted October 29, 2022 1 hour ago, dixiedoodah said: So I guess they got the sneaky quiet divorce and it’s already finalized? Yep! That was fast! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted October 29, 2022 Good for them for going/trying the low drama route. Better for everyone in the long-run! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
princess 1,712 Report post Posted March 17, 2023 ENTERTAINMENT LAWYER 03/16 **13** This Oscar winning actress has also been in superhero movies. She and her husband are getting divorced. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dixiedoodah 1,003 Report post Posted March 17, 2023 Anne Hathaway Paltrow Jennifer Lawrence I can’t think of who else is married but I also don’t watch a lot of superhero movies so I don’t know… Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wordsworth 703 Report post Posted March 17, 2023 We can add Emma Stone (Spider-Man) Natalie Portman (Thor) to the possibilities. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted March 21, 2023 Hell, I just watched Dame Helen Mirren on Kelly Clarkson - she's a goddess in the new Shazam movie 🙂 Scarlet Johanssen, Cobie Smulders, Gal Godot (I don't know DC very well, can't remember back to the XMen movies.....) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wordsworth 703 Report post Posted March 21, 2023 I forgot Cate Blanchett! She did a Marvel film. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted March 22, 2023 Oops, sorry, I missed 'oscar winner" in my guesses, so most aren't accurate. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wordsworth 703 Report post Posted March 22, 2023 I think I missed that “superhero movies” implies for than 1, in which case not Cate. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoyaheel 1,874 Report post Posted March 23, 2023 15 hours ago, Wordsworth said: I think I missed that “superhero movies” implies for than 1, in which case not Cate. I don't trust Fakey's poor writing enough to think that matters 🤔 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites